Many years ago I thought I'd better marry not so pretty woman because I don't have to worry about her being another's love after we married.
Many years later I realised I can't divorce her. If I did so, she would have no another husband. Certainly she has not loved by many guys, but also from now on she will not be loved by others but me. I would divorce a woman if she were very pretty. I wouldn't have married a pretty woman and I would divorce a pretty woman. It was really a right decision to get married to not so pretty woman in many aspects.
not all pretty women are unfaithful
ReplyDeleteYou know what? Some men go for intelligence or goodness or loyalty or ---, anything but looks. Women too. I've seen the ugliest people getting married more than once, not to mention having many lovers.
ReplyDeleteRight! And some less pretty are. Same with men.
ReplyDeletethats very true, i dont consider myself ugly, though far from beautiful,
ReplyDeletei was a good faithful wife, and a good mother, but my ex couldnt stay faithful xx
If it's you on your headshot, you should be a bit more confident. :-)
ReplyDeleteBeauty is in the eye of the beholder . Divorce isn't good just because of ugly or pretty . It is a hurtful thing that is done too much .For all the wrong reasons .
ReplyDeleteI don't think that looks would tell if one would be faithful or not.
ReplyDeleteand if i were your wife, and I've read your statements? ... I would divorce you as soon as I can.
Sorry, can't help but feel sorry for the one you married. She surely does not deserve to be discussed in such a manner.
It's not what we see outside that makes a person beautiful, it's what's inside...
You should check how you look inside once in a while.
ME TOO!!
ReplyDeleteTrue, but it is also true that a pretty woman tends to get more opportunities to be seduced by men. Therefore a pretty woman can have more chances to have new relations than not so pretty woman. This is a matter of probability.
ReplyDeleteHowever yeah, you are right. There are two types among pretty women. One is faithful and the others are not. Apparently I want to go out with a pretty woman who takes for granted that love and lover relations ought to be faithful.
Once I had deeply involved with an unfaithful pretty woman. It was a very hideous experience.
I've once met a quite horrible Japanese guy, but I didn't conclude that all Japanese were horrible. They certainly aren't.
ReplyDeleteI understand that the unfaithful woman made you feel very bad, but really: you shouldn't make such generalizations.
I know just too many people around me, both men and women, who divorced. There are many cases in divorce, though, it is certain that one feels more gains while the other feels more loss. Alimony ought to occupy its vacancy, but I heard just few cases alimony was rightfully paid.
ReplyDeleteI can't divorce her for many reasons other than her looks. I pretended to be a fool by attributing to such a stupid idea that I raised in my journal.
I have to be overwhelmingly selfish to be able to divorce her, up to now I'm not.
ReplyDeleteOK. Leads to a good discussion. :-)
ReplyDeleteThere are some rightful cases divorce ought to be admitted. But I think in many cases divorce is for a woman just an unhappy event. Divorce is in my honest opinion admitted mainly out of men's selfishness.
ReplyDeleteYou'd better generalise that almost all Japanese guys are horribly unacceptable. They have no confidence, then arrogant to hide their lack of confidence. And worst of all they are not intelligent. One of the worst species on the sphere.
ReplyDeleteI won't divorce a woman who proclaims with a full of pride that she would divorce a guy like me.
ReplyDeleteAfter all I've got to destroy myself first in order to divorce a wise and pretty woman like you and dlopez.
You appear pretty intelligent to me - and not particularly arrogant. I can't say if you lack confidence.
ReplyDeleteThe guy I met had very bad manners and behaved downright indecent towards women. I never saw another Japanese like him.
Thank you very much [blushing].
ReplyDeleteI lived in Japan for 3 years , I met a few that fit this upper description but for the most part a lot of loving & wonderful people .I loved my life there . Japanese people are VERY Smart and gental loving all around normal . Divorce is ugly anyway you look at it but needs to be done on right reasons.
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